can you say “no” ?

she was a delicate woman,fragile with long hair and a beautiful face..
her smile was innocent,her enthusiasm obvious

she was cleaning the floor in an internet cafe.
she was 14
she was getting married at the end of this month

i’m a law student and a woman but that has got nothing to do with it.i am no one to judge wot makes her happy.may be it’s best for her.but,has she been given any option to choose otherwise.
wot kind of a world do we live in.
i know child labor is not only impractical to ban,but also arbitrary,at least she’s earnin her food.but is that all.does food become the beginning and end of a poor man’s life?
i think.
if at all,our country could provide education for all,may be there would be independence in true sense
i read in my fav book ,a question that still sends ripples down my spine
the question was “are you free?”
you are,if you can say no..if you have the freedom to say “no” then you are free and that’s all the freedom you need.
i think education alone gives us that freedom.freedom of choice,freedom to be able to say “no”

if you know of any other way then I’d love to know.

jus a passin thought

what is your driving force?
what’s your ambition.
you are workin hard.toilin each day until it turns into a long sleepless night
burning d midnight oil and staying awake till d dawn of light.

but ,wait,hold on.stop

why are u doin this?
what’s on your mind?
what are you looking for?

gains.mental or physical?
peace?
material gains..jus so that life is comfortable all through..so indirectly the whole life is spent workin(read :in discomfort) for an eventual comfort

to maintain the same “standard of living “or higher than wot ur parents could provide
and pay them back for their love and affection and take care of them like they did for you since u were born and after they die, to provide for your kids,till they grow up and provide for you.
is life then not a vicious circle of duties and reproduction and a certain love for kith and kin

you might live for power and prestige .

might live for the sake of it

or for knowledge
or living a hedonistic life.a pre-paid holiday on earth?

wot’s the cause of your life?wot’s the reason of your existence?
i heard a certain someone tell me,the reason for his success..that success aimed to achieve a higher end,a desire to help.a simple desire to help.
not many are born with a dynamite for a mind,and those who do should choose to leave a legacy,a memory of their ideals behind.
evil or saintly,strong ideals are worth a chord to strike, with the mortals who exist not live,give them a reason,a zeal to thrive.
that one,chose to use his fortune of thoughts to buy d freedom that’s hard to find ,and through that freedom, help a few attain a better life.
a life you touch is a life granted, coz an aimless life is worse than death.
if u think u have it in you, then leave ur aura behind